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Flirting
Honesty
Intimacy
The Ladder Theory
The Dominance of Infidelity
The Illusion of Love; The Ninety Day Theory
Past, Present and Future; The Emotional Evolution
Goodbye; The Blessing
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Few people will argue that time is precious. I, for one, believe in making the most of each and every day. It is impossible for us to separate ourselves from our past. After all, it is our past that makes us who we are. However, this does not mean that it has to determine our tomorrow. Too often we decide to isolate ourselves from intimacy because we are afraid to be hurt or fail in
what seems to be an elusive quest for love.
The worst thing anyone can do is to allow a prior failed relationship to prevent them from engaging in
what could be a very fulfilling present or future relationship. How is one to know if they are ruining their future based on the unfortunate aspects in their past? There is no way of knowing, short of being omnipotent, therefore, it is all the more paramount to live every moment. When we dwell on our romantic failures of the past we stay stagnant, not moving forward but wallowing in the muck and mire that is our past. Our future is as grand as we allow it to be, or as bleak as we make it. It is by nature’s design, or evolution if you prefer, that we become stronger through the process of natural selection. Just as this process is applied to humanity’s ability to adapt and overcome its present shortcomings in order to flourish in the future, it should also be applied to our
emotional evolution. One’s last emotional heartache should not be the foundation for who one is as a person or mate. Rather, it is an unpleasant realism that is essential to one’s own emotional evolution.
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