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“Intimacy is the touch”. A lover’s touch tells you many things. Intimacy may be as innocent or as subtle as two lovers holding hands. Envision two lovers gazing longingly into each other’s eyes; neither utters a word. They smile, seemingly reading each other’s thoughts. They become lost in each other as their fingers slightly touch. They smile suggestively, as they both understand the level of intimacy their touch possesses. Gentle strokes and slow touches along the palm and wrist act as delicate footsteps to a forbidden door. Placing your palm along a lover’s cheek is simple and subtle, but with the proper caress can be ever so seductive. As I gently caress my lover’s cheek, I silently proclaim the universe irrelevant as I hold all that I desire in the palm of my hand. Stroking my lover’s hair as my chest becomes her pillow, is one of the most surreal yet erotic experiences
I have yet to experience.
Intimacy is not a dish to be devoured at once, but a feast that is to be prepared properly, slowly, and with care until its taste is perfected. I use the analogy of a feast as a feast caters to many diverse pallets, and more importantly, a feast leaves an appetite subdued and a thirst quenched. The term “caters to many diverse pallets”, is not a reference to promiscuity, but more to the desire and ability to transcend one’s own self-imposed boundaries, be they intimate or emotional, in becoming the preferred dish of one’s lover. The feast refers to the vast number of desired dishes or courses we consume, dictated by our own pallet. Intimacy’s touch may take many forms, but few have the erotic lure of the massage. Gentle, but firm massages have the ability to alleviate inhibitions. Alleviating inhibitions in this case refers to creating an atmosphere in which you and your lover feel comfortable enough to allow free-flowing communication between your minds, bodies, and souls. Give your lover a soothing bath and towel them off. Afterwards, give your lover a full body massage using hot oils and I assure you that it will be one of the most intimate moments you have yet to know.
Slowly “relearn” your lover’s body as if you were touching them for the very first time. Soothe their shoulders as if you were pouring the whole of your
affection out in each caress. Slowly and methodically travel
from their neck to their shoulders, then to the base of their
spine. Continue to turn them over and begin again at their waistline. Massage upward; while briefly pausing to admire them, while you decide whether to stay or explore further. Continue your exploration until you begin to massage their chest.
You’ll know it pleases your lover from the hunger in their eyes and the soft, but deep exhales they release with each soothing touch. The sensuality of this moment is unique. All is well as you two now lay captive to an intimate touch.
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