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Honesty is vital in any healthy relationship. I am not referring to the mere opposite of lies, but the openness shared between oneself and one’s lover. You can never find complete and all-encompassing love with any other individual until you love yourself enough to be open with yourself and your lover about
your wants and desires. Love cannot flourish in the absence of honesty. This level of openness may only be achieved through relinquishing the insecurities and inhibitions that hinder our capacity not only to give love, but to also receive love.
If my lover were selfish, inattentive or emotionally distant while making love, should I grin and bear it, or do I convey to my lover my lack of fulfillment? Conveying the concept of the need for mutual fulfillment can be quite pleasurable in and of itself. Please your mate. Cater to him or her as if you’ve waited a lifetime to share this one fleeting moment. As you please your lover, sighs and moans will ensure you of your lover’s pleasure. When you feel the time is right, switch places with your lover. Don’t ask, don’t even utter a word, simply do it (power and control are always aphrodisiacs). If your lover fails to even attempt to please you, you may have a selfish lover and may want to reconsider your relationship, as a selfish lover seldom stops being selfish.
If your lover attempts to please you, but seems a bit hesitant, don’t be afraid to guide them in fulfilling your wants. If your lover is pleased and returns pleasure just as they’ve received, you have fulfilled your own desires with the aid of a more than willing accomplice.
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